I've tried to befriend a couple competitors and it just seems to go no where. Maybe it's me. Maybe its the method I'm using. One accused me of being a kitty litter cleaner, referring to powder based systems. He mentioned this when I mentioned that I use low moisture systems. As I started to explain he pointed to his 10 year old truck mount and 10 year old training he got in Boston (and this was 5 years ago), told me he never heard of anything like an OP and waved me off, "Ahhh, this is all I've ever needed." Last time I tried to refer a job to another window cleaner in the area the call was screened by her mother. I asked to speak directly to the owner. I was told "she doesn't work that way." I asked what "work that way means." She says "I take her messages." So I told her I have a decent size account I can pass her way, no strings attached. Five minutes later he Mom calls back, "She's not interested."
So, I've kind of given up on working directly with folks. I do send business on now and again.